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Relationship forming focuses on the decision-making process leading to a relationship. It therefore differs from relationship therapy which focuses on improving an existing relationship. [1] Put differently, relationship forming is about "making the right choice", while relationship therapy is about "making the choice work". Discontent at failure to achieve such a relationship is on occasion referred to as TFL (true forced loneliness); although some TFLers may have life satisfaction despite not forming a relationship. [2]

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  2. "Involuntary Celibacy: Causes and Treatments". Dustin K MacDonald. 2016-05-14. Retrieved 2018-09-04.