Esther Vilar

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Esther Vilar
Esther Vilar (1977).jpg
Vilar in 1977
BornEsther Margareta Katzen
(1935-09-16) September 16, 1935 (age 88)
Buenos Aires, Argentina
Occupation Writer, psychologist, physician, sociologist
Nationality German, Argentinian
Education University of Buenos Aires
Notable works The Manipulated Man (1971)
Spouse
(m. 1961;div. 1975)

Esther Margareta Vilar (born Esther Margareta Katzen, September 16, 1935) [1] is an Argentine-German writer. She trained and practised as a medical doctor before establishing herself as an author. She is best known for her 1971 book The Manipulated Man and its various follow-ups, which argue that, contrary to common feminist and women's rights rhetoric, women in industrialized cultures are not oppressed, but rather exploit a well-established system of manipulating men.

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Biography

Vilar's parents were German emigrants. They separated when she was three years old.

She studied medicine at the University of Buenos Aires, and in 1960 went to West Germany on scholarship to continue her studies in psychology and sociology. She worked as a doctor in a Bavarian hospital for a year, and has also worked as a translator, saleswoman, assembly-line worker in a thermometer factory, shoe model, and secretary. [2]

Esther married the German author Klaus Wagn in 1961. [3] The marriage ended in divorce but they had a son, Martin, in 1964. [ verification needed ] Concerning the divorce she stated, "I didn't break up with the man, just with marriage as an institution." [4]

Work

The Manipulated Man (1971)

One of Vilar's most popular books is titled The Manipulated Man, which she called part of a study on "man's delight in nonfreedom". [4] In it, she claims that women are not oppressed by men, but rather control men in a relationship that is to their advantage but which most men are not aware of.

Some of the strategies described in her book are:

The Manipulated Man was quite popular at the time of its release, in part due to the considerable press coverage it received. [5]

Vilar appeared on The Tonight Show on February 21, 1973, to discuss the book. In 1975 she was invited to a televised debate [6] by WDR with Alice Schwarzer, who became known as the representative of the women's movement at that time. The debate was controversial, with Schwarzer claiming Vilar was: [7] "Not only sexist, but fascist", comparing her book with the Nazi newspaper Der Stürmer. [8]

According to the author, she received death threats over the book:

So I hadn't imagined broadly enough the isolation I would find myself in after writing this book. Nor had I envisaged the consequences which it would have for subsequent writing and even for my private life - violent threats have not ceased to this date. [9]

Other books

Her play Speer (1998) is a work of fictional biography about the German architect, Albert Speer, and has been staged in Berlin and London, directed by and starring Klaus Maria Brandauer. She has also written many other books and plays, but most have not been translated into English.

Selected works

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References

  1. "Stichtag - 16. September 1935 - Geburtstag von Esther Vilar". www1.wdr.de. September 16, 2020.
  2. Times, Judith Weinraub Special to The New York (June 13, 1972). "She Says It's the Men Who Are Enslaved (Published 1972)". The New York Times.
  3. Wünsch dir was (in German) Der Spiegel, December 27, 1971. Retrieved December 20, 2011.
  4. 1 2 Author Esther Vilar Lashes Out At Women Star-Banner, June 14, 1972. Retrieved December 20, 2011.
  5. E. Vilar, "Der dressierte Mann", radio-interview (in German) ARD , November 7, 1971. Retrieved in December 19, 2011.
  6. Excerpts from the debate can be seen in the documentary about Alice Schwarzer, available in the "Deutschland - Lenker und Gestalter" series of 12 DVDs released in Germany, and in a recent Schwarzer interview aired in September 27, 2011, and available in the ARD website. The full-42 minute debate can be obtained directly from WDR in DVD here and online at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NufFVuXN84.
  7. Im Clinch (in German) Der Spiegel, February 10, 1975. Retrieved December 20, 2011.
  8. Frau gegen Frau (in German) Die Zeit, June 16, 2005. Retrieved December 20, 2011.
  9. Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man, revised edition, August 1998